Me and my Mum have got differing opinions on this and I want to know who is BU. So:
Family member A owes family member B money. It was agreed to be paid back at x rate per month.
Family member A now feels she is putting financial strain on herself to pay back the money at the agreed rate. My mum has suggested that Family member A should pay half of what they agreed as Family member B 'hardly needs the money'.
Family member B does have a larger income than family member A (however they are both single sahm) and B also came into some money a few months back but nothing substantial.
My opinion is that A is being unfair on B as regardless of how much money B has, we don't know her full financial situation. And more importantly, it is not okay for A to go back on the repayment agreement because she doesn't like being skint, she borrowed the money and agreed to repay it so should suck it up. For info: A's financial circumstances haven't changed since she took out the loan with B.
Mums perspective is that A should only give what she feels she can afford even if it's half what was agreed as family member B 'doesn't need the money'.
So mumsnet jury, who is BU?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Help settling an argument re. owing money
23 replies
HappyGoLuckyGirl · 17/06/2015 22:49
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.