message from babys father after i offered contact...
would love to see baby but a the moment i have alot of shit on my plate so for now can we just text and chat about baby and things as me and the girls are all happy about baby and don't want to muck you about so can we take it slow.
my reply..i think i will leave it M. sorry im not going to be messed about. i cant just say i got alot on my plate and not bother with baby or other kids can i?
my reason for that reply was when i was first preg he done a runner 3 times. then when i was preg he said he would be supportive and help out. 4 times i asked for help.and there was an excuse everytime. i moved dishwashers/washing machines/ rolls of carpets. and pulling them up and laying the new ones on my own. i sent him a whats app message and said if he really dont want to know then he needs to be honest instead of coming up with crap excuses. he said ok and blocked me.
his adult children made contact with me a couple/few weeks ago. and i thought ok i give him a chance and sent him a message asking if he wanted to see baby. and the responce was as above...
i think his kids want him to have contact with the baby but he does not...and im thinking what can a baby get out of a text message...whats he think im going to do read it to baby?
i dont know if im being a cow or not...it just feels like an excuse and he not bothered
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
babys father/contact/am i being a cow/talking in anger :(
48 replies
ghostspirit · 07/06/2015 14:25
OP posts:
2fedup ·
07/06/2015 15:07
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
2fedup ·
07/06/2015 15:22
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.