My ds is 13 and catches a bus provided by the school to and from school. He has made friends with a couple of boys on the bus who live in our village. Boy 1 let's call him Dave and boy 2 let's call him John.
Ds has a nickname that He has had for years and he introduces himself to people using this name. He has the name on his football shirt (his choice) so it's not unusual for him to be called this. If you didn't know why he was called this you may think that someone is being rude to him.
The boys he has made friends with are always around and they come here, go out, etc. they are lovely boys and ds speaks very highly of them. He is constantly asking if John and Dave can come round.
Anyway today on the bus the boys called ds by his nickname and the bus driver overheard. She spoke to ds on his own and asked if they called it him all the time and he said yes. He was then called out of class by the head of year who said did ds want them to stop calling him this name? Ds said yes and the head of year said they were bullying him. The boys will be dealt with tomorrow and parents are likely to be called in.
Ds has not told his friends this. They were here last night and have been texting this evening. I have spoken to him and he is not being bullied - not feeling threatened or upset by the boys which was my main concern. I tried to explain to him that the friendships may not last after this.
I'm wondering wether to call the school tomorrow and explain that yes he doesn't want to be called this name anymore by those two but it's not a bullying case (our school come down quite hard on bullies)
What would you do?
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To think that this was a bit of an overreaction from ds
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Lollypop27 · 04/06/2015 21:25
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