Background: 7 month old, combination fed from birth. Had a few problems with bottle rejection the past couple of months but persevered and all is well now.
Love breastfeeding but just cant do it exclusively. Partner may give her a couple of bottles in the evening, say 3 days a week to let me get on with jobs/take a bath/put 2 yr old to bed.
Now the next 3 months are choca bloc with events. Two weddings (child free) and the hen dos of very close friends (one hen do is in Spain for two nights) plus two 40th parties. Since having my first child, I have never been one to leave them to socialise but this time I have accepted the invitations. (close friends, and quite frankly I want to go!)
My nana and mum both say its selfish of me to breastfeed and not be with my baby all the time as I am taking away her main comfort. They also said I am leaving my partner to pick up the pieces (he has never complained, encourages me to go, and never had any problems when having her overnight previously - when I have been ill on occasion since she has
Been born).
After August, everything will settle down - no more weddings, hen dos or 40th parties (we have a small social circle).
But then I am told to give up the breastfeeding for preparation for her going to the childminder full time in October (going back to work). That it will be distressing for her if she is not weaned off the boob.
Am I selfish for continuing to breastfeed? To accept the invitations? To do both at the same time?
Prepared for the truth from you guys even if it hurts.
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To continue to breastfeed although others think it's 'unfair' to my baby?
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PrawnToast12 · 01/06/2015 18:56
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