Can you please offer opinions on this incident that happened between cousin's. My dd & my niece both 5 & my nephew aged 7 (other sisters child) were all on a sleep over at my mums. The next day my sister rang to say her daughter had told her that nephew had kissed their privates. It was part of a game where he also tried to get them to swallow some small toys but they refused.
It did happen - no one disputes this. I was really upset and it ended up in a massive row with my sister (nephews mum) who said amongst other things it was normal curiosity, the girls must have led him on and that I was massively over reacting and that I have a problem with her kids and that if it was anyone else I wouldn't have been bothered. This is totally untrue. I was devastated and angry at the same time especially over her lack of concern. My other sister didn't seem particularly bothered by it and also thinks I over reacted.
This happened a while ago and its not mentioned now but something cropped up about it last night. I don't think I over reacted at all. The kids still see each other but dd isn't allowed on sleep overs with him and to be honest I don't like them being on their own but try not n to let that show - i just keep an eye on them. Aibu - is this normal behavior?
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stargazer2030 · 30/05/2015 11:34
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