I arranged with a friend that I don't see often to meet at the park after school. Children play, we chat. She suggested a time, I said yes. No mention of other people that would be going. So I'm thinking we'd get a bit of time to catch up. When I get there with dc, four other friends arrive (that I've never met), with at least one of them as confused as me, and clearly not pleased. The other friends didn't seem to know each other and first friend just introduced us, but didn't say anything about there suddenly being six of us (and children) . Surely this is a bit off, don't know what to think! It would have to be severe baby brain to forget you'd already arranged with four more people (and then not realize/apologize once we all turned up)! And doesn't make sense if she'd rather not meet with me any more (would just say she is busy when asked) or prefers group get-togethers (would at least tell me about the others surely). Am a bit about apparently different expectations (she doesn't seem to want to catch up then or think it would be decent to ask me if I would mind other people joining? Which i wouldn't at all if i was asked!). We never got to talk at all (had some great chats with some of the other friends though ). Maybe it was a ploy to bring us all together and she actually meant well? As I said very . I can't work it out! Am I overreacting being ?
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to think it's strange and actually rude of friend to invite more friends to meet-up without asking?
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BluebCheesecake · 29/05/2015 13:45
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