i split from my ex last year after a 12 year relationship, we have 2 young children. i am remaining in the house and the divorce is going through due to unreasonable behavior on his part. We are in the process of trying to arrange a consent order and we both want certain terms writing up in this. he has agreed to child maintenance and to pay half the mortgage until either the children are 18 or i am ready to buy him out or sell up however my question is if i meet a new boyfriend how will this work? we have had hypothetical discussions on if i meet someone but how much say would he have on my new partner visiting the house/sleeping over ?? i have the children with me permanently as he doesnt really show an interest (although i do try to encourage him seeing them) so the only way i could establish a relationship is having somebody come to my house. ultimately i would love to buy him out but this isnt an option and i would not want to rush a relationship to moving in point if the relationship isnt ready.
understand that this is hypothetical im just wondering what my rights are, i hope ive explained myself properly.
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sitdownabcheck · 26/05/2015 14:10
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