I wrote this once already and lost it maybe I should've taken that as a sign - I'm not an everyday MNer, but I've noticed a few threads in the past couple of days where people are calling others 'unintelligent' as if it were deserving of punishment to not know everything all the time.
AIBU to think that being decent to others and endeavouring to be nice (especially when you are intelligent) is much more desirable?
Fair enough if someone fully understands every side of an argument and is just being a dick about it, but the beauty of the internet is that you get to learn through debate with a much wider group of people that IRL - that helps solidify knowledge to then be used intelligently to benefit. Hopefully it also means greater empathy through seeing it from different points of view.
I'm not claiming to be perfect just in case anyone thinks that - I'm pretty sure I've been guilty of this when I've been annoyed at my inability to make the case for something I believe. Maybe it's one of those things that's much easier to see from the outside when you're not directly involved.
It feels similar to when people say someone is 'unhinged' or another term that denotes mental illness. I'm just not sure it's actually ok to criticise someone on the basis of their IQ particularly.
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Being clever vs being nice
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Albadross · 25/05/2015 09:41
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