I have 3 kids, DH has 4. We've been together for 8 years.
His 2nd eldest is 21. He dropped out of his first year at uni, but went back and was just about to finish his 2nd year. 2 weeks ago DH gets a call saying he'd left uni 10 days previously as he wasn't enjoying it. He's gone back to his Mums.
Tonight DH gets a text asking for £100 to cover outstanding debts from his shared digs. He said he's trying to find work (so far he's had 1 interview for wagamamas).
I said DH should offer to pay his debts off direct rather than send him the money direct. We know he smokes far too much weed. I tried to discuss it with DH but he wouldn't - it was difficult as we have a house full. We only hear from him when he needs something.
DSS had a job in a cinema about 3 years ago but he quit as he said he didn't need the money. That's the sum total of his CV.
So DH has sent him the money, and tried to hide the fact that he did.
AIBU for being seriously pissed off?
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goldwrapped · 22/05/2015 20:45
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