Longstanding friend of 10+ years and me have had big falling out.
She has hurt me badly and cannot/wont acknowledge this. We are quite childishly not really speaking now, not to prove a point but more because I am so upset that I dont have anything to say.. I am assuming she doesnt either.
The problem is that she has had a few things creep up on her over the past months - and I have gladly been there for her in the past over them e.g. ill health of parent, work stress, marriage problems - and I know this week is hitting her hard (we spoke about it v recently). Do I say anything? I really want her to know that everything aside im not heartless and can empathise with her over it all. But am torn between wanting to be there for her and equally not wanting to be a pushover...
How should I, if I even should, just give her support but equally not project the image that I am apologising/feel guilty for what has happened. if that even makes sense!
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Being the bigger person when someone has hurt you... Would you ?
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Cerealnamechangerforever · 16/05/2015 22:47
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