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Family member has two pedigree dogs. Due to downsizing to smaller house, the dogs were noisy/unhappy so they asked if my nan would take one dog. Nan agreed and dog is then installed in her house sitting on the best chair on special cushion and generally treated like a king. In short, she loves the dog and it's done her good- heating is now on more "for the dog"!
After a family row the dog was snatched back. The row was over money owed to nan which wasn't paid as requested. Nan was crying and upset, luckily the dog was returned a few hours later with a note saying it was "unsettled back at my house".
I can see now that this family member (who is generally always short of cash/arguementative/temperamental) is always going to have this hold that the dog is registered and chipped to them, and could reasonably force the return of the dog at any time they don't get their own way (when shouting, crying and swearing does not work)
Whereas Nan loves the dog she has no right of ownership or keeping it does she? The dog can be used as a way to basically emotionally upset/abuse her.
AIBU to think this is elder abuse to do this to a pensioner?
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Elder abuse? "Gift" of dog
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TiredButFine · 07/05/2015 07:56
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