www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/11583794/Surrogate-mother-launched-hate-campaign-against-babys-gay-father.html
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3068796/Deceitful-surrogate-mother-carried-baby-wealthy-gay-couple-refused-hand-desperate-child-herself.html
Genetic and birth mother has daughter taken away from her and given to a gay couple, one of whom is the father. There was no surrogacy agreement in place between the mother and the gay couple and the judge found on the balance of probabilities that the mother deliberately misled the gay couple in order to conceive a child for herself rather than changing her mind at a later date.
The mother was criticised for:
- Keeping the 15-month-old girl with her 24 hours a day, sleeping in the same bed, being carried around in a sling, and breast-fed on demand day and night. I have two daughters under three and that's only a slightly exaggerated description of their relationship with their mother for the first 15 months after birth.
- Using requests to take breaks to express milk to disrupt the other side’s evidence.
The mother was Romanian. Query whether the result would have been the same if the mother was middle class English rather than poor immigrant.
The judge involved does not have children.