Help me see sense I'm just seeing RED at the moment! Why are we not naming shaming fathers who abandon their children and refuse to pay child support?
We name and shame child abusers, people who break the law, benefit fraud etc all kind of moral and illegal crimes but fathers abandoning children and causing all sort of damage seems to be swept under carpet.
I want my child to grow up knowing that it is not okay for anyone to treat them like that, that there is worth more but society just seems to say nothing.
With so much social media, why aren't women naming and shaming these men?
My DS farther has had no contact for a number of years. He has no memory of his father. CMS finally do something and he has only paid ONE months maintenance in 9 years but he didn't pay last month and I have just found out he has now gone self employed and I am unlikely to get more that £5 a week. We have struggled, really really struggled. I work but we still use food banks sometimes and I am feeling like I just want to scream and tell everyone that what hes done is a form of child abuse. How can you buy new cars and go on holiday when your child is waiting at food banks and has never had a holiday. I find it difficult that someone can cause so much hurt to a child and they get away with it.
Why shouldn't I just set up a social media page, surely if I only state hard facts i'm not doing anything wrong? or am I?
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mummyonamission · 04/05/2015 20:24
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