DD is 16 months old and her nursery have sent her home twice in the last two weeks. Both times I have got there having left work and rushed there in a panic only to get there and she's been completely fine. I arrived yesterday and she was sitting there quite happily stuffing her face. I don't want to be a mean mummy and obviously I want to pick her up if she's actually unwell but I think it's a bit silly to insist that she be picked up just because she's teething.
Apparently they have a new policy in place which dictates that if their temp is above 38 they have to go home, no matter what. Which strikes me as being overly inflexible. Even her care worker said it's just her teeth, there's no suggestion that she has anything contagious which I presume is the reason for that policy, to try minimise infections spreading.
They gave her some Calpol which allegedly didn't reduce her temperature which they said was 38.3. But when I got her home it was 37.4. She wasn't 100% for the rest of the day granted but she wasn't poorly, a bit grumpy and cuddly but basically ok. She ate her tea, played as normal, went to bed as normal. She only has 6.5 teeth so far so there's a lot more of this to come. Obviously my dd is the most important thing in the world to me but I have to work to put a roof over her head and with so many teeth still to come out I'm worried this is going to start being a regular thing. It's not really possible for her to dad to pick her up so it's all on me.
There have been times I've picked her up when she was genuinely ill and I have no issues with that at all, obviously. I also wish her care worker wouldn't sound so utterly panicked whenever she does phone me. I'm getting better at ignoring that but her tone of voice has really scared me in the past. I would have thought someone so experienced would be a bit calmer about run of the mill problems that all babies and toddlers have. But that's a side issue I suppose.
So AIBU to expect nursery to manage minor illnesses / teething themselves? The cynical part of me wonders if they do it because grumpy babies aren't as easy to take care of as babies who are 100% fine. Should I query the rigid over 38 and you're home policy with management?
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to think nursery are too quick to send dd home?
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firsttimemum0000 · 28/04/2015 09:24
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