Our DDs are both 11 and are starting to want to go out on their own. They see each other about once a month. Yesterday DD's friend & mum came over & the girls wanted to walk to our local park, 10 mins walk away. My DD has done this a couple of times recently to meet friends there. My friend however started saying, in front of both girls, "what if someone GRABS you and BUNDLES you into a car!" I said to her, if you're going to worry about things that will probably never happen, you'd never do anything. She then said "don't you worry that she may go out & you'll never see her again?" I replied, well no, I don't think like that! She was then questioning which of us was the bad parent! The girls did go, and apparently DDs friend was suspicious of practically everyone they saw. I'm really angry that my friend said all this infront of the girls. No wonder her DD is so untrusting of everyone. My DD is very sensible and knows that murderers/kidnappers etc are not lurking on every corner, but only because I've explained the risks involved. I feel like giving my friend a piece of my mind.
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