Have posted about myfamily before as I am trying to work through some issues with them. Very long story short, have lived 4 hrs away from home due to husbands job for over 10 years. I visit my family at least 4 times a year and every Christmas. I ring my mum at least 2 or 3 times a week, text her every day. She is retired. Dad still works. They live close to my sister.
Every time we speak my mum mentions missing my son (10 months), I try and say something along the lines of 'we miss you too, but we'll see you in xx number of weeks'. They have been to visit twice since ds was born, both times for one night. One time was because they could fit it in on the way back from their hols.
Today she came out with "please remind ds who his nana is". In a very plaintive voice.
I went to see her at easter (4 days), going for her birthday in june. Visiting in summer hols. She has not mentioed coming here despite me asking several times. My dad just took a week off to do decorating! Visiting us is just not on their agenda. Which is fair enough, but surely comments like that are emotional blackmail? I work btw, 3 days a week, and dh is full time.
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Dontunderstand01 · 20/04/2015 13:18
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