I want to know if I'm an unreasonable woman here.
DP went on a night out last night. I dropped him off at the pub at 3pm where he met his mates. He told me "I won't be late, I'll text you in a bit and I'll bring you takeaway back".
So I get on with my evening. Since we've been together he's never stayed out past midnight and especially as he was starting drinking at 3pm I assumed he'd be ready for home by 11ish, not that if mattered, it's just what was the norm.
So 11pm comes and goes, not heard a thing from him since 3pm. I went to bed. 2am I woke up, he still wasn't home and still no text. I layed awake considering texting him to ask if he was ok but decided against it not wanting to come across as the clingy fiancé. 2.30am he staggers in, with a kebab he'd bought for himself and then collapsed into bed.
Next day I had a go at him, not because he'd come in late but because he's not even bothered to text me from 3pm in the afternoon. Even a simple text to say he was staying out late would have been nice. DP retaliated with "it's the first time I've been out in months, I hardly ever go out and when I do I drink a lot so yeah, I didn't think to text you but I'm a grown man, I don't need to let you know what time I'm staying out till".
Is he right? Do I expect too much?
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I kicked off because DP didn't text me all night
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StoneBloodyCold · 29/03/2015 16:38
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