just wondered if anyone could tell me what would be the best way to handle this .I won't go into too much detail but yesterday me and my son were having a bit of a discussion that got heated to which he told me to 'go fuck myself'
He is 22 years old and said this to me in front of his 4 year old brother I wasn't shouting or swearing he didn't like a bit of advice I gave him about leading a girl on that was it really
When he did this I told him to to please leave and as he was leaving he was shouting fuckoff at the top of his voice .
I am really really upset by this he was totally aggressive towards me .
He is going through a tough split at the moment and hasn't seen his children so I totally understand he is stressed out but I'm so upset and disappointed to be spoken to like this me and his step have been there for him as parents do through thick and thin .
I am really hurt because this isn't the first time he has said this to me I'm not saying he talks to me like this all the time but every now and then if he doesn't like what he hears or you don't 100 per cent agree with him he does this .
I'm feeling really pissed off and fed up of this behaviour he really needs to grow up . Im more upset because this isn't a way we behave in this house we don't shout and swear at each other and he knows that I'm so angry and upset he did this in front of his little brother
What do I do he is arrogant and won't apologise and thinks he is in the right he knows I'm soft natured and that they mean the world to me so will be waiting for me to get in touch
For me this is one fuck off to many .
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glittertree · 27/03/2015 07:06
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