Link to my previous lengthy thread here www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/www-about-this-email-wedding-related
In summary, last summer I was bridesmaid for a close friend. All seemed to go fairly well on the day, some weeks later she sent me and another bm a shitty email saying we'd let her down and behaved badly, everyone thought it was terrible, and so on.
We replied, disagreeing politely. She and another friend basically did a lets sweep it under the carpet and move on. Without accepting she was wrong in any way, even though what she'd said was completely untrue.
Other friend then planned a meal/ overnight stay at hers for all of us which thankfully ended up getting cancelled, that was in early Dec.
Have heard nothing since then from bride, she's popped up a few times on facebook but that's it.
Anyway a few weeks ago (after my DP was diagnosed with cancer - luckily it was small, hasn't spread and touch wood he's going to be fine) I thought oh sod it and emailed our group suggesting we all meet for lunch later this month. Kind of an olive branch, etc.
Bride has replied v enthusiastically, suggested everyone stays over at mine the night before to catch up, see the wedding photos etc...
Other BM meanwhile is still less than happy with bride. Especially as over Xmas she heard from some friends who also attended the wedding that the bride had been retelling the 'how out of order we were' story to most of them....and that apparently no one has received a thank you for their gifts. So she's saying she doesn't really want to come for lunch, and certainly not the night before.
Sigh. What do I do now?!
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bridesmaidrevisited · 02/03/2015 08:28
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