DD (9) has been having more issues with the girl ('OG') from this thread www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/a2280191-To-let-DD-leave-a-girl-out?msgid=51855249#51855249
And I'm now flummoxed as to what I can do next.
I was called in by the teacher today to be told that DD has been nasty to OG - has called her names and has then lied to the teacher about it. The teacher has seperately asked the other girls in the group (3 of them) and they have all said they have heard her do it.
DD is being punished for the name-calling and the lying
The problem is, that I may well be the 'cause' of the latest drama. After listening to DD complain about OG all week I told her yesterday to calmly say to her "I'm sorry OG, but I don't want to play with you because you keep getting me into trouble"
DD says she did this today (confirmed by the teacher) but OG went 'nuclear' (DDs words) and has told everyone that DD is constantly nasty/picking on her/being mean. It all kicked off and I was called in.
I just don't know what to do next. DD swears that the name calling was in retaliation and that OG has been a nightmare all week. There have been lots of friendship problems with OG, but I've reached the point now where I am starting to beleive that OG is 'targeting' DD to get her into trouble. I've told DD to stay away from her, and she points out that she does, but OG then purposely confronts her, asks why she won't play, and then tells the dinner lady/teacher that she is being left out.
I could do with some advice. It's escalating at a rate I really wasn't prepared for.
I shouldn't have to force DD to play with someone she doesn't like, but what do I do instead?
(I have to drive somewhere now, but will be back as soon as I can)
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EveDallas · 27/02/2015 18:24
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