expecting DC3 in July, and the 20 week scan is fast approaching.
I am dithering about whether to find out the gender or not. I am a little concerned as I have to admit I do have a preference, I know it won't matter when he or she arrives but I'm focusing on it heavily at the moment.
On the one hand I think if I find out and it's my "preferred" gender I'll feel relieved but I think I may also feel sad, as if I rejected the other gender. I know that sounds stupid; I am when I am pregnant. It does also make organising things a bit easier. I can also tell DC1 (dc2 is still only a baby) whether they are having a brother or a sister.
On the other, if it isn't my preferred gender I won't feel "disappointed" when I give birth. But then I don't think I would anyway.
I suppose I am just interested in what others did and why :)
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turquoiseamethyst · 26/02/2015 22:33
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