something has just happen that has really pissed me off!
We are staying at my bfs dad's I am trying to stop co sleeping with my 4 months old DS. whenever he falls asleep now I want him going onto his bed so he gets used to being alone.
up to now I have fed him to sleep then he has slept with me. I want to get him used to sleeping alone then I will tackle self settling.
bfs dad knows this as 30 mins ago I was telling him about a book I was reading that looked at getting babies into a sleeping routine without them screaming. (he thinks this is the 1 and only way of doing things)
I DO NOT WANT OR BELIEVE IN LETTING MY BABY SCREAM
so I feed ds he's asleep and he goes into his bed 5-6 mins later he wakes up. bfs dad moves the bed near to help blocking me and starts talking to ds. ds is obviously still tired and bfs dad tries to talk him to sleep which is fine until my son starts screaming and he refuses to pick him up and starts shouting back!! I tell him to pick him up and he wouldn't so I went round and cuddled him bfs dad stormed out the room saying he will never learn
my son had pooed and that's why he was crying.
AIBU to think my son my parenting either follow it or do 1?
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to not let bfs dad dictate how I parent ds
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jemima1988 · 31/01/2015 15:42
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