DS is 6. His dad and I split up when he was 3 and we have shared custody, he stays with his dad 2 nights in the week and every other weekend Friday to Sunday.
He has been invited for a sleepover at a school friends house tonight, when he is meant to be at his Dad's. XH and I both know and are friends with the parents and I know he would love to go. XH has said no because it is "his" night. DS is obviously disappointed and of course I'm the one who has had to try and justify it to him because I'm the one who takes him to school every day and has to field the questions from him and his friends. I'm really pissed off, think it's very selfish of XH to stop DS seeing his friend because he wants to spend an hour with him this evening. XH doesn't get back from work until 6.15 and DS is in bed at 7.30 so it's not like they would get a lot of quality time together this evening anyway.
Am I being unreasonable to say something to him about this or should I just stay out of it? I'm worried that this will happen more often as DS gets older and it feels really unfair. He also has previously refused to take DS to friend's birthday parties on his weekends even though they have no other plans, and it's always me who has to explain to DS
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caledonianclown · 30/01/2015 09:57
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