Mil loves to take dd swimming and tends to weekly. However last week I told her not to as dd was snotty and had a cough that seemed to be bothering her. Mil still had dd but just didn't go swimming.
I thought dds cough had gone but seems to have come back with a vengeance would I be unreasonable AFTER telling mil that dd seems well enough for swimming this week to tell her she can't take her again?
Dp fell out with his df last week & I'm worried mil will feel I'm taking sides/ punishing her (she does get upset about these tgibgs) if I say no to swimming this week.
Can 2 year olds go swimming with a cough? I'm not sure if I'm being ott.
Dp fell out with his df over our dd causing clutter in his house with toys & basically fil expresses that he felt we were dirty people who trash his home so now dp doesn't want dd round there when he isn't because he remembers his df ways when he was little regarding "mess" & said it really stuck with him and doesn't want dd subjected to it, so now I can't even tell mil to take dd for the afternoon instead of swimming!
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To ask mil not to take dd swimming again this week
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Sugarfreeriot · 28/01/2015 06:27
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