Every year we spend Boxing Day at the ILs, but this year they decided to go and visit BIL and SIL, who I really cannot stand. We weren't invited thank god so planned to see MIL and FIL today. I was already a bit that our longstanding plans were changed without us being told until a couple of weeks ago, but ultimately PILs can do as they please so no arguments.
We arrive, FIL isn't there. Playing golf. No suggestion that he is sad to be missing his son over Christmas. I jokingly remarked that we were like the second class son and DIL (because we hadn't been able to see them over Christmas and now FIL isn't there) and MIL slapped me really hard on my calf, saying don't be silly etc. It hurt!
Lunch was awful. DH's uncle and aunt in law were there, the aunt is always an ally for me, has a good sense of humour (lacking elsewhere) but there was no Christmas atmosphere and I could tell DH felt upset that all of the energy and Christmas spirit (crap phrasing I know) had gone on his brother and his family. DH is quite sensitive and quiet, not the type to speak up.
Luckily we managed not to stay late, and are home. AIBU to pour the biggest glass of wine I can, eat chocolates and think of a get out plan for next year?
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AIBU?
To have a massive glass of wine to recover from today at the ILs?
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GermanHouseCat · 27/12/2014 18:39
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