To have forgotten to by DH an Xmas card

[BloodyUserName]

I know it's bad but I've been dashing around like a blue arsed fly since November. Everyone else got their cards via the last post on Saturday, presents are done but I stone cold forgot a card for DH - he insists it's fine as he forgot to buy a first wedding anniversary card but I still feel guilty. Grrr I usually love Christmas but it's been a real slog this year (dreams of taking myself off to a spa come January)

[BloodyUserName]

buy

[WorraLiberty]

My DH and I don't buy each other cards, but if you two do then what's the problem?

It's only December 22nd

[arlagirl]

Do spouses really give each other cards at Xmas???

[Velvetbee]

You buy your husband a Christmas card?
Can you not just leer 'I really love you', over the Buck's Fizz?

[buttercupbear]

Just buy one tomorrow.....

[GwenaelleLaGourmande]

I never buy dh a card. Tbf we never buy each other gifts either. Christmas here is about food for us, gifts for the kids.

[LadyLuck10]

Er you still have 2 days

[Suefla62]

I've been married for 45 years and I've never got my husband a Christmas card.

[Philoslothy]

You have two full days to buy a card, I thought that Christmas cards were for people you don't see in person very often.

[CountingThePennies]

I wouldnt worry about it.

My parents havent bought a card for each other in years

They bought each other a card 10 years ago then the same ones go up every year

[Sn00p4d]

Yep, that's why there's a big section of husband/wife cards...
I wouldn't worry, either buy him one now or chalk it up to experience, it's not Christmas yet so you haven't forgotten yet, just a wee delay!

[misskangaandroo2014]

YANBU. I don't bother with a Christmas card to anyone living in my house, nor anyone who gets a gift.

[ilovesooty]

My father used to send me out every year to buy his card to my mother.

[lomega]

Aw. DH and I do xmas cards for each other, it's cute! My parents do it as well.

It's only the 22nd. Oh and M&S have their big special flashy cards at half price right now.

[BloodyUserName]

Unfortunately we usually exchange cards on the morning of the 22nd before heading off to spend Christmas with family and whilst I can just about grab a petrol station card, he'll be waiting in the car and it won't be very subtle (or well chosen). We've always done cards though I think he'd like the leery Buck's Fizz idea.

[ssd]

I've never bought dh a Xmas card

[pollypocket123]

Loads of people buy their spouse a card...are the puzzled faces above for real?! Huge selection in the shops every year...doesn't mean you have to buy one, of course. I always do, for the record.

[Philoslothy]

I don't go into card shops, have never bought my husband a card of any description and have never noticed in in anybody else's house .

[rockybalboa]

DH gives me a Christmas card every year. Every single year I look at it and think "why have you bought me a Christmas card? I haven't bought you one...." I just don't get it. Don't buy them for the DC either. I also don't subscribe to the named recipient type card either. Not my bag. But in answer to your AIBU, just go buy one tomorrow?

[RedSoloCup]

We don't do cards, we do do birthday sometimes.

[Frogme]

You are supposed to send cards to your Dh? Why didn't I know this?

[Llareggub]

I don't send cards to anyone.

[PiperIsTerrysChoclateOrange]

I think shop bought cards are a huge waste of money. I really love homemade cards that children do using art supplies at home unprompted.

My family knows not to expect Christmas cards, I donate the money to charity.

[FergusSingsTheBlues]

I simply dont get the dilemma.

1. Nip to shops
   
2. Butpy card
   
3. Sigh
   

You have two days!

[hazeyjane]

Make one