Would like some views on this please.
Dh has had a few days off and my family have needed me so rather than taking 3dc with me (all under 5 and 1 has sn, autistic etc) I left them with him. He had another day off today and again family needed me so I said he can have the kids for a few hours while I help family.
I did take kids with me to mums house sk he could have a lie in and rest this morning. He had a good 5hours to himself. Ive not had 5 hours to myself in a very long time. So he said ive not had the day off to look after kids
My reply was ive never had day off and I do nights too. Ds with sn still wakes up screaming at night and has health issues so is usually up 3/7 nights a week. He doesn't get up to do anything.
Ds3 is now up every 2 hours a night for a feed again.
I can see he wanted to relax which is why I took kids ti mums but still wasnt enough? ?
Close member of family is disabled so tbeg need extra help doing things some days
I dont normally post on aibu but would like some views. Thanks
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LostMyBaubles · 22/12/2014 17:07
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