Im FT at work and DH is self employed workung long hours. Eldesh DH is in Y7, settled well at new school. Hes' s dropped to school by us in the morning, and has a bus pass for coming home, has a house key and is at home alone from about 4.30pm until we get home for6.30/7pm.
He knows house rules,;is v sensible and is either doing homework, tv or playstation.- doesnt answer door or phone unless its us.
Have 2 other DC who go to family member after school which i pay for.
Had a lecture from my Dsis about abandoing him, how its wrong, what if house burnt down etc....and its kinds stuck in my head!!
Been a SAHM for years, doing crappy atrempts at self employment so i waa there for kuds and now finally gave a great FT job..but feeling guilty....
Was told by another family member she wdnt pop round this half term as i needed to spend time with my own kids as they never see me :-0
Very happy and confident kuds...but they alao moan a lot to me and obviously others about me and DH working so much, i.e. full time
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leaving 12year old at home alone while we're at work?
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mofro · 28/10/2014 06:15
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