To cut a long story short, 18 months ago I believed I was very happily married, with the happy family I'd always wanted. My previously amazing DH then had an affair with a colleague and at the start of this year he left to be with her (although he managed to hide this until the summer and pretended he was living with his parents).
Sometimes I feel okay and I am functioning fairly well but I just still feel so hurt at being treated so badly and rejected in favour of someone else. I know the OW owes me nothing but I still feel upset and angry when I think of her and stbxh happy together after the misery theyve caused. It gets worse when I think of her getting to spend time with my precious dd when I want to be with her and knowing she's driving around in what used to be our family car.
My mum thinks that 9 months is enough to get over this and I wish I could but I feel like I am still grieving for my marriage and our little family. I know that shit happens and life isn't fair and I need to suck it up and get on with it! Is 9 months too long to still be having a cry most days, should I be in a place where I'm not so bothered? If not, when should i hope to be there or is there likely to always be some sadness?
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To still feel so sad about family separation 9 months on?
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Notnastypasty · 20/10/2014 18:30
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