So it seems i am being called a troll on the sole basis of having an unhinged sister in law who struggles with privacy boundaries. I am also being graded for "composition" and criticized for "lacking depth" and told to "get a job". <br>I had been warned that some of the posters on here are bitchy and competitive but i'm actually quite stunned by the level of spite and hostility aimed at a complete stranger who is so stressed she is on medication, when all she did was ask for some advice from an impartial party.<br>I'm a nice person, and i'm just asking for help. I don't know where my life is going at the moment. I have no space that isn't invaded by a woman whom it seems no one will pull into line. On top of that i have just had my old dog put down and lost my best friend. I certainly don't expect sympathy but less of the spite please. It doesn't hurt to be kind and humane, not "here comes a stranger, let's throw a brick at her."