Ex H and I are divorced and have a reasonable relationship. He moved several hours away but still sees his DS regularly.
When we split up we forward paid the school fees for DS (fifty fifty EXH and me.)
DS has two years left at this school now, and I have just started working there, which means I get a % rebate on the termly fees. I was given the first term's rebate as a lump sum (several hundred pounds.)
Is this money mine? or is it half mine and half EXH's? Bear in mind it has only come about as a benefit for my working at the school.
I know it is not a huge amount but over 6 terms it will mount up, of course. I could put it away for something specific for DS but I would see that as my choice if the money is mine, not something Ex can dictate I do.
What is the reasonable point of view here?
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oneearedrabbit · 29/09/2014 19:22
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