My sisters getting married in September 2016. She asked me to be Maid of honour 2 weeks ago. I said yes not realising what it would entail. I don't have clue about maid of honour role, I honestly thought I'd just go with her to look at a dress! <br><br>She's been looking at venues and flowers and cakes and all the rest of stuff and on each thing has asked my opinion. This I'm not bothered about, I'm happy to have a look and say what I think.<br><br>Last night she was showing me a really expensive venue, I'd said "Have a look around first cause there's loads of time and that seems a bit expensive". She then starts saying that I think it's shit and and I don't like it". I said repeatedly I havnt said that I'm just saying have a look around. <br><br>There's been a few other things that have bothered me but that last night has made me really angry. I'm not one for getting "told off" for thought crime. And I hadn't said anything of the sort about me disliking her choice, for her to assume what I'm thinking and thn have a pop at me about it has made me really angry.<br><br>I cannot be arsed with two years of this. If she was being nice about it I'd be happy to be involved but if she's going to keep accusing me of thinking and saying I've said stuff I havnt I really just can't be arsed. <br><br>I have my own stuff going on, I'm 26 weeks pregnant an I'm bloody tired all the time! And after my baby's born i don think ill give a flying fuck about her wedding as harsh as that sounds. <br><br>So would I be being unreasonable to tell her I've changed my mind?<br><br>I don't want to upset her but on the same hand she doesn't mind upsetting me. I just can't be bothered with 2 years of this drama. Especially being accused of thinking!! I'm really angry about it and I'm not up for 2 years of this drama.