Some background: I'm 30 weeks pregnant with severe SPD, so bad I can barely walk and certainly can't do anything much around the house. I've been signed off work, and will be going on maternity leave a month earlier than planned on 2nd October. I feel like the house just isn't getting cleaned often or thoroughly enough. My DP is doing his best but he works full time and is often really tired at weekends and in the evening. He's doing everything while I loll on the sofa or in bed, and I feel terrible.
Worse, I'm also getting quite annoyed (and feeling guilty about that too!) because he's not cleaning as often as I'd like... It's a fortnight since he cleaned the bathrooms, or mopped or hoovered. I'm doing my best by sweeping up and using our handheld Hoover every few days, but it's extremely difficult for me to even stand. And I want to nest properly! I did suggest a cleaner to him (we can afford one) but he says he'd rather save the money and do it himself... But he's not doing it! And I can't say anything without feeling like I'm nagging and ungrateful.
Anyway, I mentioned is to my dad when we were chatting and he said he'd pay for us to have a cleaner for a couple of hours a week, for the next three months - baby should be born by then and I hopefully will be recovering from SPD so will be able to do more myself. WIBU to take him up on his offer? He can afford it easily but I feel bad.
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CarmineRose1978 · 20/09/2014 13:49
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