And to think the GP should be more supportive?
My son is just 4 and for 2 years i have been worried that there is something going on with him with regards to his development since turning 3 his behaviour. He was referred to a speech therapist when he was 2.5 as he used alot of jargon which was very unclear. He waited 9months for the appointment but due to the high demand we were discharged and told to go back once he is 4 if his speech is still unclear. He has improved slightly but not many people can understand him and you cannot hold a proper 2 way conversation with him and if i ask him what he has done at school he says the same things and nothing more.
He also has a poor diet, will not eat cooked dinners and picks at sandwiches and also will not open his bowels on the toilet as he gets very distressed. I have got a pot, a seat for the toilet and i have tried not giving him pads but as he is still wet overnight he just waits until then and does it in his pad.
His behaviour is also very challenging. He screams, get easily frustrated, cannot sit still for example he is always climbing or rolling around. I have had to come downstairs now as i have been up there since 6.00 doing his bath and trying to settle him down and once he gets into bed he is doing headstands up the wall and just generally not settling down. I try reading to him and he continues to do this. I am in tears of frustration and upset as i just do not know what to do.
I have been to the doctors who asked if i was thinking along the lines of ADHD which i was. I even wrote some things down to tell the doctor. He was all for referring him but phoned me that same night to say he had spoken with a senior doctor and they asked me to keep a log then go back with it. Trouble is i would be writing in it constantly. He also has a poor attention span.
Is this normal 4 year old behaviour or could something else be going on? I just want to help him and i feel i can never reach him if that makes sense. Feel like a complete failure. Im also 7 months pregnant which i don't know if that is why i feel so upset.
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2boysandcounting1 · 15/09/2014 20:03
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