Sorry if this upsets anyone, but having recently suffered a fairly close bereavement it's something that I've noticed. The wearing of black, the maudlin music and hyms played at funerals it's slowly disappearing. I often read the obituaries in my local paper and more and more of the notices announce that the funeral will be a "celebration of life" and ask mourners not to wear black. The more traditional funerals tend to be reserved for the elderly, which is rather odd considering you should be celebrating a long life that's been lived.
Recently a young woman nearby died fairly suddenly and her family asked for bright colours only to be worn at the funeral. She was placed in a wicker coffin and during the service her favourite music was played. Afterwards at the wake pink balloons were let off, one for each year of her life. It seemed like such a lovely way to remember her, despite her only having lived a short life.
AIBU to think that by the time I reach old age the old the old Victorian way of mourning and dealing death will have vanished?
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To think that were are slowly moving away from the Victorian way of morning and dealing with death?
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HangingBasketCase · 14/09/2014 17:56
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