Here's the context: ds 8, dd 11. Both bright students, athletic, no school worries etc. Dd is an avid reader- over summer vacation, she would read 3-4 library books a week. As I used to. In fact, it makes me so happy whenever she reads one of my childhood books.
Ds hates reading, and never reads for pleasure (except once, memorably, the first diary of a wimpy kid). All summer, he games. xbox, tablet, laptop. I'm not above a spot of Plants v Zombies myself, and I keep telling everyone that minecraft is just like playing lego. Extended family and friends keep mentioning he games "too much" and his hours should be controlled.
Anyway, I find myself wondering whether we, as a society, snobbishly elevate reading as some kind of worthy, "good" activity for kids, while gaming is something that must be closely controlled and timed. Is our societal preference for reading over gaming simply a form of intellectual snobbery?
I realise the irony of posting this, btw, while on the front page of mumsnet is an article about sexual violence in games. Is there no sexual violence in books? Can people not write stories about their violent, misogynistic sexual fantasies?
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To think gaming can be just a "worthy" form of amusement as reading?
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Evelight · 01/09/2014 14:21
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