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AIBU?

to think that she is doing the wrong thing as a parent?

216 replies

HootOnTheBeach · 30/08/2014 20:21

Really didn't want to use the word 'bad' Sad

DP's darling sister uploaded photos of her 9~ month old in McDonald's eating fries and chicken nuggets.

We KNOW junk food is bad, why give it to such a young baby? Why give it to your child at all?!

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gentlehoney · 30/08/2014 20:23

One junk meal in an otherwise healthy diet will do no harm at all.

BolshierAyraStark · 30/08/2014 20:24

Really? Hmm

Try harder.

WorraLiberty · 30/08/2014 20:24

Meh! As long as the baby enjoyed it, it filled them up and it's not given often, I can think of far worse things to get het up about.

It's not something I'd do, but that doesn't mean that anyone else who chooses to do that occasionally is a bad parent.

KissMyFatArse · 30/08/2014 20:24

Calm down! Not great but not end of world ...

sharonthewaspandthewineywall · 30/08/2014 20:27

I wasn't allowed any food like that as a child. Now I am a right lardy fatty gutbucket

Silvercatowner · 30/08/2014 20:29

Why give it to your child - because its nice???

pointythings · 30/08/2014 20:29

I have photos of DD1 as a 9mo noshing on a chip. She's a slim trim 13yo these days. Everything in moderation, forbidding certain foods is completely counterproductive.

PinkSquash · 30/08/2014 20:29

Why does anyone eat anything but locally grown vegetables and fruit?

Janethegirl · 30/08/2014 20:30

Everything in moderation, although I wouldn't have fed maccyDs to my dcs at that age. To be fair I wouldn't eat there now, but my DH and adult Ds does.

HaroldLloyd · 30/08/2014 20:31

Don't you like her. That was a cutting "darling sister" there.

Are you projecting your dislike of her onto Ronald Sad

MyFairyKing · 30/08/2014 20:31

The only thing that this thread is making me think is "I want chicken mcnuggets"!

BlinkingHeck · 30/08/2014 20:32

DS1 didn't have a Maccy D's until he was 3! It just never happened. DS2 was 11 months old poor bugger. We were having a new kitchen fitted so needs must.

Both kids are healthy and slim. It's just food.

Like a previous poster my parents were really strict about food, I am also a lardarse with major food issues.

HootOnTheBeach · 30/08/2014 20:32

Silver - it's unhealthy, why give your baby unhealthy things? Why give your kids bad habits? Obesity and health issues in the UK have been rising, diabetes and heart disease and so on. Seems like a disadvantage to get babies hooked on stuff like that at all.

You could always give them fruit which is also 'nice'.

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HootOnTheBeach · 30/08/2014 20:34

And no, I don't dislike her, we get on fine, I was just shocked that she was feeding her baby (who she was so excited to have!) unhealthy crap.

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Andrewofgg · 30/08/2014 20:34

The only thing that this thread is making me think is "I want chicken mcnuggets

Wimp.

I want a double cheeseburger with large fries and a bushel-load of salt . . . but I think I had better not go and get one!

AnaisB · 30/08/2014 20:35

You didn't mention in your op that she has got her hooked - now that is bad.

WorraLiberty · 30/08/2014 20:35

Who is getting the baby 'hooked' on McDonalds? Hmm

Trapper · 30/08/2014 20:36

Doesn't sound like she has done anything wrong. YABU and should mind your own business.

seaofloom · 30/08/2014 20:36

Well I guess that's baby-led weaning taken to it's ultimate conclusion -just give em what you're having.....Grin

BolshierAyraStark · 30/08/2014 20:37

Nah, sod the McD's-have a huge need for a Zinger, why oh why do I keep happening upon these food threads?

HaroldLloyd · 30/08/2014 20:37

That's another odd comment, what do you mean about that she was grateful to have?

Weird.

WorraLiberty · 30/08/2014 20:37

Was this the baby? Grin

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ILovePud · 30/08/2014 20:37

I agree with Harold, it sound's like you have bigger issues with that mum than a chicken nugget. Ok it's probably not the best food for a 9mo old but I think to be labelling her as a bad parent on the basis of this is a bit too judgy.

FlossyMoo · 30/08/2014 20:38

Are they putting cocaine on French fries these days instead of salt?

OP all things in moderation. Let her parents worry about their child. Just think if she has an obese teenager in 14 years time you can through this one in her face Grin

HootOnTheBeach · 30/08/2014 20:39

Food addiction is a proven thing, particularly to high salt and high sugar foods like the stuff you get in fast food places. I don't think it's a good idea to form those habits and connections, e.g. having junk food as a 'treat'. Lots of things taste good without being detrimental to your health.

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