DS3 aged 12 has pleaded with me to allow him to have the Snapchat app on his smartphone so he can send and share pics with his friends. We had the same conversation around 6 months ago and I said no, as I felt he was too young to use it responsibly. Cue rant from son about me being world's worst parent etc. He asked again today, as some of his primary school friends are moving to a different secondary school and he'd like to stay in touch with them using Snapchat. I'm still not at all happy about allowing this, as I feel that he's too young (official snapchat age limit is 13 yrs) . Also, with Snapchat I can't monitor his activity as, according to the Snapchat publicity, images / messages disappear 2 - 10 seconds after they are sent.
I am ICT savvy, and regularly have the "staying safe online" conversation with my children, as well as monitoring all of their online activity at my home. Situation is slightly complicated by the addition of an over permissive ex-h who allows the children to decide what they have access to when at his house, and tells the children I'm over reacting and out of touch - no bitterness or anger there on my part - honest.
I'm really welcome other mumsnetters opinions here, as maybe I am out of touch and over reacting on this one.
Thank you
Hil
AIBU?
To refuse to allow DS aged 11 to use Snapchat app
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