I get the strong feeling I've been un-invited to my best mates' 50th birthday party. I've known her for a long time.
Now: so as not to drip feed but also not wanting to out myself I'll say why and the explanations I've come up with if it's true.
Months ago she excitedly told me it's going to happen. It's a shared thing with another person whom I know too. Immediately we agreed that of course I'll be there……
Fast forward to a few weeks ago. She was staying at mine as she is regularly ATM. It's a case of mi casa su casa (sp). She went out with the fuckwit she knows is a borderline piss-head but has recently decided she is in a 'proper' relationship with . I don't mind him although I took exception to him when he became physically aggressive to her last year
I got up around 2am, it was hot. They had come back to mine. All was well (they were both very pissed) until I got up to go back to bed and he makes a really inappropriate remark about my body (in his world I guess he'd see it as a compliment). I left them to it. I know he's an idiot but I'm not the one who wants a relationship with him. She was angry with him about that. Since then, contact between us has diminished.
So on Monday I went to collect something of mine she'd borrowed. I asked her when her do is and suddenly she's all evasive and is planning a low key affair mid week. No mention of the bash. I know it's going ahead. I'm thinking:
A. I ask her again and see what she says.
B. I say nothing (my least favourite option) since it would be a bit passive
C. I assume that somehow she's angry with me for him saying something which was really off after she has decided they are 'together' - and therefore I'm not wanted there
D. I don't know.
If I have been un-invited I'll be really very angry. I support her a lot in many ways, not least listening for 2 years to the complaints about said BF.
How would you play it and AIBU to be imagining this? TY
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bitnonplussed · 23/08/2014 13:26
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