My dsis is getting married next month. I'm chief bridesmaid. So dsis gave me a list of ten friends she'd like to come to her hen party, as well as her two other bridesmaids.
Since then I've spent about £400 pre booking dinner, a show etc for the attendees. Also booked their train tickets, all with their emailed confirmation that they'd like to come and we're happy to pay me what they owed.
Last week I emailed and Facebooked the final details and asked for payment to my bank account. So far only three of the ten have paid, the rest have gone quiet, including the bridesmaids...
Obviously I can't pull out, dsis would be upset, but aibu to get arsey with the non paying guests? I can't afford to be out of pocket by hundreds of pounds...unfortunately I don't know many of them, it's potentially going to spoil what would've been a fun night if I get too stroppy though.
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to want to pull out of organising this hen party?
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dolphinsandwhales · 13/08/2014 20:21
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