This isn't an urgent problem, but a confusing one :)
It's my birthday. (Well, not today, but it will be in a week or so). My relatives will probably give me money as a present, because I am not a kid any more.
I'm not talking loads of cash, just a nice sort of remembrance, which I really appreciate and like. Some people give me gift cards which I love and always use. Some, however, give me actual money.
This year, if it happens (tbh I am happy with birthday card without present! If I get a nice card I am delighted.) there is one person who I think might give me money. If they do I've been thinking about donating that money to a cause. The person who might give me money would not approve of the cause, to say the least.
What is the right thing to do here? Not use the money in that way thinking of the giver's views? Or use it as it is a present?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To give money away someone else gave you?
67 replies
shockinglybadteacher · 29/07/2014 19:56
OP posts:
Newsletters you might like
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.