Hi, I am new to this site so here goes...parenting my sons when they were younger was a dodder compared to now...aged 20 and 16, I am really struggling with 'letting go'. My eldest is at uni and home for the summer having just completed first year...he says he has no independence at home and feels smothered..I don't know what I am doing wrong..he goes out when he wants and comes in when he wants. I ask general questions like where and who with mainly out of interest, he has the same friends from school days and I like asking how they are doing too. He says he wants to be left alone and feels pressured to be involved in family stuff..my younger son picks up on it and is beginning to behave similarly. I do think I am a bit too mumsy and smother them ..how can I learn to cut those apron strings and for us all to be happy..
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