Our first baby is due at the end of august (my mother's first grandchild) and everyone is very excited. My mum lives about 300miles away and is not the easiest person to get on with (DH would call that an enormous understatement!) She can make me feel extremely stressed at the best of times and im constantly worried about her and DH arguing - which they generally dont, as long as he bites his tongue.(I imagine sleep deprivation will make that more difficult!)
She has, somehow, invited herself to stay with us for a week at the beginning of august, returning the weekend that the baby is due to "help". She wont help. She doesnt cook or clean or wash. She just makes mess and noise.
AIBU to ask her not to come? Can I ask her to give us a few days/ a week after the birth before she meets her grandchild?
How do I tell her? She WILL throw a hissy fit and I, at almost 9 months pregnant, am not sure I can take the stress!
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ILikeRed · 25/07/2014 18:49
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