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AIBU?

To not give her a bath?

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BillyNotQuiteNoMates · 23/07/2014 08:39

5yo DD had a friend for a sleepover, I decided not to give them a bath last night, WIBU? Feeling guilty now.

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BillyNotQuiteNoMates · 23/07/2014 08:40

She's going home at lunch time, if that makes any difference.

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Pyjamaramadrama · 23/07/2014 08:42

Not as long as they washed their hands and face and brushed their teeth.

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ilovepowerhoop · 23/07/2014 09:07

of course its ok not to have a bath. Mine dont have a bath/shower every day

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fledermaus · 23/07/2014 09:09

I'd find it a bit odd if you bathed my child on a one night sleepover, unless they got incredibly dirty.

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arethereanyleftatall · 23/07/2014 10:20

My life became a lot easier once I realised a bath every night isn't remotely necessary. Now my girls get bathed about twice a week.

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my2centsis · 23/07/2014 11:06

Is this a joke?

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Mouthfulofquiz · 23/07/2014 11:16

Hilarious! My boys get a wash everyday but a bath about twice a week.

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itiswhatitiswhatitis · 23/07/2014 11:17

Eh? I would find it odd if someone bathed my 5 year old on a sleep over!

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Roundedbuttocks90 · 23/07/2014 11:18

I bath my nearly 1 YO DD ever other day and just wipe her down with a flannel if she needs it

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grocklebox · 23/07/2014 11:19

Is this a joke? I don't get it.

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Roundedbuttocks90 · 23/07/2014 11:20

I bath my nearly 1 YO DD ever other day and just wipe her down with a flannel if she needs it on the other days.

As long as they brushed their teeth and weren't caked from head to toe in cow shit there's no new to feel guilty :)

I don't think I would feel particularly comfortable bathing someone else's child to be fair

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HayDayQueen · 23/07/2014 11:21

Not odd at all.

I feel very uncomfortable with a friend of ours when we have get the DC together late in the day and she always wants to give all of the boys a bath at the same time. Her DS is the only boy, and he loves being with my DSs, but at 4, 5 and 7 (hers is the youngest) I have drawn the line at shared bathtimes for the 3 of them!!!!

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ElephantsNeverForgive · 23/07/2014 11:24

Likewise, I wouldn't bath mine everynight and I've never bathed visiting DCs.

You might shower legs of suncreamy, sandy and muddy DCs who'd had a water fight in this weather or scrub off paint, but that's it.

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emsyj · 23/07/2014 11:24

It's really hot and sticky here at the moment so I probably would offer a visiting child a bath if they were staying overnight, but having said that I am a bath obsessive and I shower every morning and bath every night. The DDs have a bath every night as part of a bedtime routine, I've done it since forever and can't imagine not doing it. If they were visiting someone else I wouldn't care if they were bathed or not though.

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Icelollycraving · 23/07/2014 11:49

I'd find it odd if you bathed my child unless you were family. Certainly not on a sleepover. Do kids start having sleepovers at 5? Shock

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NecesitoDormir · 23/07/2014 11:53

It depends on how dirty they are. I have given baths on sleepovers when the kids are covered from playing in the woods. If they have been playing inside then there is no need. If my kid came back filthy then I would be a bit surprised.

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