OK bit of back story for anyone who doesn't recognise my cheeky annoying yoda face
'orrible MIL
Gone NC
Husband still takes toddler to see her weekly
Bun in the oven
Ok so all going really well. No contact working out fabulous for me and my mending self esteem. In about 12 weeks though... a baby will be here.
I am thinking of (not just because of the current situation but) having a strictly no visitors in hospital apart from ds and dh for however long I'm in for then letting my family come visit me at home once I've settled back in and then letting dh take the baby to MILs for say... an hour. More or less the same day if we can wangle it.
It's a horrible situation to be in but I don't want her to feel like the last person to see her new grandchild because I've decided I can't stand being around her anymore.
Does that sound like a plan? WWYD?
I want to be fair but I definitely can't go there.
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