Hi, I look after my children Saturday evening to Tuesday. Tonight, Sunday, was my daughters birthday and her mum wanted to take her out to a restaurant. I didn't much like the idea as my daughter was also supposed to go to a party all day so I wouldn't see her hardly at all. Then the party was cancelled and I agreed to her mum taking her out. The question is pretty basic: my ex in these situations always wants me to take the children to hers first, then I have to pick them up at the end. I think she should pick them up if she wants to take them out. Whenever I try to do it my way, as tonight there is a massive row. This evening she has threatened to try to get full custody of the kids in our divorce, told me she doesn't want me looking after them any more and then her dad called me a piece of shit in the street for not going to the very door of the restaurant to pick the kids up (they had to cross a road). I did take them and pick them up. Any comments appreciated.
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