DS2 is 10 yrs and very good friends with a boy who lives down the road. We as parents are also good friends, socialize together, lift share etc. The boys spend their time either here for days, or there for days. DS was there yesterday and rang to ask if he could sleepover. I said yes but reminded him that if he was going to be out in the morning he would need sun cream on. He said he would get some when he came home for his things-which in the end he didn't do (often borrows clothes, toothbrush etc).
DS is blond and so pale skinned he is almost transparent! He has 8 hr sun cream liberally applied most mornings if he is going be out and about since you can never quite tell what the weather is going to do in this country. He spend Weds at a country show in blazing sun with friends but wasn't burnt because of the suncream.
He has come home this afternoon with friend in tow who is staying here tonight as his parents are out. He is absolutely frazzled. Not only his face and neck but his back and arms too as they have been in the inflatable pool. I was furious with him as initially he tried to deny I had told him about putting suncream on, and also for just being so bloody stupid. But then I had to think-he is just 10 and not the most responsible child.
AIBU unreasonable to think my friend should have given him cream to put on? Or sent him home to have it put on? He really is the ultimate pasty white child and quite obviously has the complexion to burn! I put cream on other friends' kids if they are here all day/overnight etc. If the child tells me they never have cream on then I ring their parents to check! Should I be cross with my friend (I am!) or should it have been my responsibility to ring in the morning and check?
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Freckletoes · 12/07/2014 17:29
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