Sometimes I think that my ds is too soft and worry that he needs to stand up for himself more. He's 6.
Examples are, Friday he took something to school, it was taken in for Friday play were they are allowed to bring something in (the classroom) to play with as part of the lesson. Somehow this thing has ended up in the playground and ds has ended up giving parts of it away to other children because they 'didn't have any', or because one child in particular badgered him until he gave in by following him around the playground. And another because the boy was crying.
When ds has birthday parties he wants to invite the whole class so that nobody is left out, and particularly those who haven't invited him to theirs, so that they know he doesn't mind.
It's not the first time he's tried to give his toys away at school on bring a toy in day and he's also given a child money for snacks as they didn't have any money.
I've seen children shoving him at parties/soft play and he never retaliates he just shrugs.
I could think of loads more examples but I worry he's too easily led and being a bit of a pushover, literally. I can be a bit like it and it breeds resentment.
I haven't said this to him of course but have had a talk about not having to do anything he doesn't want to do.
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Pyjamaramadrama · 12/07/2014 14:19
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