Very long story short, both myself and my hubby had to come out of work in 2012, due to his Stroke and me to look after him and boys.
Anyway, I couldn't stand not working, as I'd never claimed a benefit (apart from the usual child ones) in my life, I'm 31 now. I decided to start an Open Uni degree and therefore my plan is to get back to work, hopefully with a better career / better salary. I was only ever Admin, whereas my hub was Operations management within the Utilities industry so was a pretty decent earner.
fast forward, few weeks back I find out I'm pregnant, completely unplanned and still shocked.
Anyhow, I'm in a pickle, because I really don't know what to do I don't want to have to abort, as my last 2 pregnancies ended in Miscarriage and I always wanted to grow with 3 children.
But...I feel as though people are going to just judge me as being just totally irresponsible, like when I go for the booking in appointment, I'm scared of what midwife will say, or think
My plan is to still return to work, in a new career (the OU degree is a 6-year one, part time) and I'm not particularly worried about my studies.
Anybody else fell pregnant when not working, or similar situation? What should I do?
Will I regret it for the rest of my life if I decide to abort? Even the thought of this gets me upset
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