We are moving house soon and looking to recruit a new nanny for our little son. We are using an agency for this - so all good and well.
Whenever I receive a CV I like, I quickly google the candidate's name just to see if something comes up. I have a senior position at my work and we do the same when we are recruiting and if the candidate looks odd in any way then we tell the recruiter/agency that and say why.
Now, I had a look at a nice CV for a potential nanny and googled her and found that she seems a lovely girl but has posted photos of her current employer's kids online and photos of their house, garden and car with license plate. She may have consent from them, so ok.
However, she has also posted things like "my boyfriend dumped me, I am depressed" on her profile and it just reads like she is not in a happy place and has not been for a while. I get that you are sad when you have abreakup but if sad messages continue for a long period, then that is a reason for concern. I just feel nervous about her emotional well being. I said to my DH that I would like to get back to agency, refer to the candidate's twitter account. DH says, not to do that. DH thinks I am creepy snooping round the internet like that and he also thinks it could affect the girl's career.
However, our nanny requirements are a bit difficult (moving further afield, etc) and I don't want to be a picky client for the agency but want to give honest feedback. The nanny candidate really sounds very unhappy in her life.
AIBU... ??? I get that alerting the agency to the twitter account could affect the girl's career but the twitter account is out there under her real name and includes her year of birth, profession and location and tons of photos. So, I would hope the agency would have seen it too (first result on google).
AIBU for "snooping"?
AIBU for telling the agency that based on this, I'd rather say no to the candidate?
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AIBU to check out social media profiles of potential nannies?
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namechangedjustforthisonce · 10/07/2014 13:34
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